By Briana Bass, Christian Romance Author, Devotional Writer & Certified Professional Coach

In today’s world, many women find themselves navigating faith in ways that don’t always fit neatly into traditional molds. These women love Jesus but feel out of place or excluded in traditional or mainstream Christian culture. This can leave them feeling spiritually unmoored. They long for practices that nurture their souls, honor their values, and connect them with others who thirst for authenticity and justice in their spiritual lives, but wonder if there’s actually space for them in the church.

The good news is that faith is defined by a relationship with Christ, not cultural conformity. Spiritual grounding isn’t about fitting in. It’s about connecting to God via methods that are authentic to you. It is possible to lean into scripture and prayer practices that strip away cultural baggage and emphasize Christ’s radical love. We can explore faith while simultaneously building spaces of belonging.

Rediscovering Jesus Through Faith Practices

God meets us in ordinary moments. It is possible to weave spirituality into daily life. For modern women, spiritual guidance is not about rigid rules-it’s about cultivating authenticity, courage, and justice. We yearn to embrace our true selves. We ache to speak truth and resist fear. Our goal is to live out our faith in ways that align with our deepest values. What does that actually look like? Here are a few ideas to get you started:

• Contrary to what you may have been taught, there is no right way to pray. Prayer can be raw, honest, and inclusive. Bring your doubts, frustrations, and hopes. Lament. There’s literally a book of the Bible called Lamentations, and many Psalms display David’s frustrations and fears. Move around when you pray. Who says you have to stay still? Talk to God while you walk or dance or stretch. The point is presence, not performance.
• Journaling is more than writing down thoughts. It’s a spiritual discipline that allows women to process and discern. You may use it to connect Biblical themes to modern justice. Journaling becomes a safe space to wrestle with questions. It’s a way to claim your voice and tell your story.
• Art is a powerful way to encounter God. It’s an opportunity to explore one’s faith and commune with God outside of traditional church practices. Use colors and shapes to express the emotions that words cannot capture. Sing justice-themed hymns that may not be part of your church’s hymnal. Knitting, pottery, or gardening can become meditative practices when done with intention.
• In a culture that glorifies busyness, rest is a radical spiritual practice. And Sabbath rest doesn’t have to be on Sundays- fit it within your schedule. If you need to rest on Thursday, then rest on Thursday. Carve out intentional time that works for you. Rest restores the soul and reminds us that spiritual guidance often comes in stillness.

Taking the Lead in Creating Safe Spaces

Faith practices flourish in community. For some Christian women, finding spaces that honor inclusivity and justice may be challenging. I suggest thinking outside the box. You can find fellowship in nontraditional circles such as online communities, or start a small group or women’s fellowship at home. You can also build spiritual friendships across denominations, connecting with women from across our Christian family who may not fit into the mold at their churches either. Remember, “For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there I am in the middle of them” (Matthew 18:20, WEB).

Gathering with likeminded women creates a safe environment for vulnerability, questions, and growth. By modeling openness and compassion, you can set the tone for spaces where other women feel seen and valued. Yes, you! With God’s strength, you can courageously initiate opportunities for women where inclusivity and authenticity are prioritized. It’s not about hierarchy, but hospitality, making room for the Holy Spirit to move freely.

Community reminds us that we are not alone. Together, we can reimagine faith practices that honor both tradition and progress. We can set an example for younger women, passing on wisdom and encouragement while dismantling their fear of judgment and equipping them to boldly embrace their faith.

You Belong Here

God’s kingdom is welcoming, inclusive, and expansive. There is space for you, my friend. Your spiritual life is valid. Your questions are holy. Your voice matters. Remember that you are a beloved daughter of God, worthy of redemption.

Explore your faith, sister. Lead courageously and build inclusive communities. Provide opportunities for everyone to enter into intimate relationships with Christ. What step will you take today to draw closer to Jesus and create space for others to do the same?